After a difficult year, where lovers have been forced apart and physical contact is taboo, Brits have set aside their own prudish stereotypes as 34 per cent admit they’re now happy to see public displays of affection and a further 37 per cent would encourage it, according to new research from dating expert, Match.
Traditionally, overtly lovesick couples would have made Brits recoil, but after one of the worst years in modern history, one in five (19 per cent) say they’ll be less afraid to display their own love more publicly in future. Therefore, to encourage Brits to celebrate unadulterated love in the wake of a period of separation and isolation, Match has launched Made to Match – a limited-edition range of matching tracksuits and face masks so you can coordinate with your other half.
Despite being determined to be more open to it, there are still some signs of affection that’ll take time to get used to. Speaking to each other in baby voices (30 per cent), passionately kissing in public (21 per cent) and feeding each other (20 per cent) are the top three things we love to hate. However almost one in five (17 per cent) say that although they cringe seeing PDA, they secretly wish it were them.
When asked about the most iconic public expressions of commitment, the royals reign supreme. King Edward VIII abdicating the throne to marry his lover (29 per cent) and Prince Harry stepping down from his royal duties for Meghan Markle (20 per cent) top the list. These beat more modern examples, such as Kanye West showering Kim Kardashian with 1,000 roses on Valentine’s Day and Jay Z surprising Beyonce with a $1 million Rolls Royce for her birthday.
Across the UK, it would appear those in Bristol are most comfortable with displaying their commitment to one another as 73 per cent admitted to partaking in PDA, followed by residents of Plymouth (73 per cent) and Nottingham (71 per cent). In an act of love, couples in Cardiff are most likely to use “we” instead of “I” (34 per cent), whilst you’re most likely hear couples in Sheffield (29 per cent) calling each other pet names.
About Made to Match
The Made to Match collection has been developed in collaboration with Swedish retailer Aeryne and will be available to order from Wednesday 9th December. When a couple sports the tracksuit together, the design forms a perfect heart shape, while the face masks make the ideal coordinating accessory. All pieces are made out of leftover fabric from Portugal, composed of 100 per cent organic cotton and are produced in a female run factory in Hungary with limited impact on the environment, so you can match in style and also show some love to the planet. The tracksuits come in five different sizes – XS, S, M, L and XL. Match members will also receive £10 off any order.
Match’s dating expert Hayley Quinn says: “Brits have long been sticklers for a more stoical approach to affection, however this could be changing! 2020 hasn’t been the easiest year for love, but one positive is that it’s galvanised people’s desire to express their affections. So, next time you see a happy couple, be positive and celebrate the return of physical affection into our lives.
“In the case of public displays of affection, it’s also important not to judge another person’s version of happiness. PDA may not be for everyone, but you only need to take one look at Instagram to recognise how many couples love to communicate this way. If people love to call each other baby names, or share a passionate kiss in public, whilst you might find it cringeworthy, it’s probably time to be thankful to see a bit more love in the world!”
The top 10 signs of affection we love to hate
- Speaking to each other in baby / cute voices – 30 per cent
- Passionately kissing in public – 21 per cent
- Feeding each other – 20 per cent
- Ask each other’s permission before they do anything – 18 per cent
- Smug photos and gushy messages on social media – 17 per cent
- Wearing matching / coordinating outfits – 16 per cent
- Constantly texting each other when out with friends – 16 per cent
- Tattoos with each other’s name on – 14 per cent
- Compare themselves to celebrity couples – 14 per cent
- Going everywhere with each other and not doing anything separately – 10 per cent
Top 10 cities where you’ll find the most PDA
- Bristol – 73 per cent
- Plymouth – 73 per cent
- Nottingham – 71 per cent
- London – 69 per cent
- Sheffield – 68 per cent
- Edinburgh – 67 per cent
- Cardiff – 67 per cent
- Norwich – 66 per cent
- Newcastle – 64 per cent
- Leeds – 63 per cent
To find out more about the Made to Match collection visit: www.match.com/madetomatch
Notes to Editors
Research based on a survey of 2,000 UK adults (1,396 in a relationship and 594 single) undertaken by Opinium between 3rd – 6th November 2020.
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